Reading, Writing, YouTubing

Hey, Friends!

I am working on some posts about street harassment and slut shaming but while I am away, I thought I'd holla at you with some various types of media I follow that may tickle your giggle or make you think.

Magazines
In addition to cooking magazines (Taste of Home and Food Network) I am a big supporter of feminist publications. I have been reading Bitch (https://bitchmedia.org/ ), Bust ( http://bust.com/ ), and Ms. ( http://www.msmagazine.com/) since I was in my late teens/early 20s. All have great pieces with different view points of feminist issues here and abroad. Bitch (and Bust as well, I believe) also take submissions. they also have great reviews of books, music, and movies with a feminist scope.

For a non-paper magazine, check out xoJane ( www.xojane.com ). If you were a fan of Sassy or Jane when they were in print, you will be sure to dig this as well. It is a site that devotes itself to allowing women to be themselves, unabashedly, and celebrates every aspect of them. It is written by the xoJane community, meaning anyone is welcome to submit articles to them. Which is pretty rad.

Comic Books
Yeah. You read that right. I have rediscovered comic books and am so terribly happy I have. All of the books I read currently (and, I know this will be a horrific shock to you) have prominent female characters that range from the traditional female comic book style of art (think short/tight outfits that cover very little) to very covered but still badass. Here is what is on my list:

The Unbeatable Squirrel Girl: This is funny and cute and perfect. I am obsessed with squirrels so Doreen is what I want to be when I grow up. She is a girl who is trying to get through college while saving the world.

Ms. Marvel: Kamala Khan (Ms. Marvel) is a Pakistani teen from Jersey City. She is learning to control her powers as well as her limits while going to school, trying to be the perfect daughter, and (natch) save the world. The way the writers flawlessly blend her home life and culture into the book is endearing and fresh.

A Force: All female Avengers. All bad ass.

Lumberjanes: If girl scout camp and the occult/mythical had a baby, Lumberjanes would be the result. It is cute and age appropriate for teens while still being enjoyable for adults.

Thor: Odinson is no longer worthy to wield Mjolnir. The only one worthy? A woman. And holy shit does that mess with a lot of people/gods.

Bitch Planet: Women found non-compliant are shipped to a prison known as Bitch Planet. This book shows women of all shapes/sizes/races and soon (#kindaspoileralert) transwomen as well. It is written well, drawn beautifully, and has been striking a MAJOR cord with feminists everywhere. They end each issue with an essay that discusses feminism or women's issues.

YouTube
Oh YouTube. How much time I waste on you! I have recently become super into watching videos/following different channels. My taste is a little...everywhere. Most of what I follow is funny or tutorial based. With each channel, I have added a video they have out that I really like.

Glam & Gore: This is a make-up tutorial channel that covers... Glam and gore (get it? It's in the title.) Mykie covers basics like blending, eyebrow filling, and contouring as well as special effect make-up. She is also really flippin' adorable. The video posted is based on Wicked Witch make-up. She does a normal version based on Elphaba in Wicked, then the melty goodness of the original witch. She also does a really cute sloth to zombie sloth tutorial. Annnnd she calls her followers zombaes which I think is hilarious.

 

MyHarto: I have a HUGE crush on Hannah Hart. Sweet Jesus. She does the My Drunk Kitchen series as well as vlogs. Her followers also do great community service projects they call "have a hart day." I can't even with how sweet that is. Below is from the My Drunk Kitchen college series: how to make Sriracha Chicken.



 

Mamrie Hart: I found out about Mamrie when I saw her on an episode of @Midnight. She is hilarious and sometimes a little filthy which is a winning combination for me. She has 2 channels, Mamrie Hart and mametown. Mamrie Hart houses her hilarious You Deserve a Drink series while mametown is home to collaborations and other characters she has. Beanz, her dog who always has their tongue out derpily to the side, appears on both. Given the season, I felt her toast to fall (which is absolute perfection) was the best choice as it tickled my giggledick and spoke to the struggle of spending fall in a warm place.

 



 

IISuperwomanII: Lilly Singh is funny and smart. A lot of her videos feature her playing her parents. She riffs on the cultural differences of her family between generations in a light hearted way. I am going to cheat and post two videos because I CAN MUAHAHAHAHAHA. Well, really because One of them actually shows a bunch of YouTubers I watch in one video. I never realized how these people have come together and built friendships based on enjoying each others content and collaborating. They are making YouTube a community. I have been a Jenna Marbles fan for a few years and saw she is in the video, as well as Colleen Ballinger (who most people on YouTube know as Miranda Sings), Hannah Hart, Mamrie Hart, and others. The second video is just Lilly and a guest appearance from Kunal Nayyar (of Big Bang Theory fame) and is a humorous retelling of how her parents met.

 



 

The Portuguese Kids: This speaks to my soul. It is a clever, funny, and brilliant look at what it is like to grow up in a Portuguese home when you are the first generation to be born here. It highlights cultural differences perfectly without being too heavy. This video focuses on what it is like for girls to grow up or live in a Portuguese home.

Anniversary Scavenger Hunt

Clearly, I didn't get this done alone the way yesterday. I was too busy enjoying it and too nervous to drop my phone in some sand. My apologies!

I got up early enough to beat my mug into perfection.

This was a struggle, not the mug-beating but the getting up. I had stayed out late with a friend and JACKED my foot up. Naturally, I had taken my sandals off on Pavilion Beach so I wouldn't get sand in the footbed. I channeled my inner geology student and climbed some rocks... barefoot. I slid a little and jammed my toe and foot. Ouch. It's ok. Dr. The Husband fixed me up, washing sand and debris from my wound and dealing with me crying like a child when he used alcohol and skin sheild.

The premise of today's hunt is for me to travel around to places that have some kind of meaning to us and meet up with friends along the way to navigate me through the guessing. I have italicized its meaning for those who are curious.


First Stop: Pleasant Street Tea Company in Gloucester
This is our coffee place. This is were we go if we want coffee or tea and aren't running late for life. Upon arrival I cheated and looked around the parking lot across the street to see if I could easily identify any of them. Success! I go in and find our friends Jaimie and Paul along with their fabulous daughter. Order a fancy coffee and caught up while the wee one rearranged the shops furniture (the feng shui must have been off).

Second Stop: Tuck's Candy in Rockport
I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE taffy. OMG. So friggin much. The Husband has learned this well because everytime we are downtown or in town for the 4th of July, I have to stop. We arrived and I was handed off to my next guides, Krystal and Tristan. We shopped for delicious candy (taffy and old fashioned candy sticks for me!) before departing on to the next stop.

Third Stop: Pavilion Beach in Gloucester
Pavilion, famouse for The Greasey Pole and Seine boat races is my thinking spot. If I am having a rough time dealing with something or we get into a fight and I need to leave, The Husband knows he can find me here--perched on a rock. Possibly the one that jacked me up on Saturday.Still with the awesome Krystal and Tristan, we parked in St. Peter's Square, home of St. Peter's Fiesta. We deviated from the plan and went on a hunt for coffee. Lone Gull was open and we sat in wonderfull leather seats and drank our deliciousness. [Side Bar: San Pellegrino Pompelo (Grapefruit) soda is fantastic! I don't usually go for white grapefruit products but this was totes worthit!) We trecked back to the beach where we talked and I started to sun burn--something I didn't find out until much later.

Fourth Stop: Captain Dusty's in Manchester
We love ice cream. We have three spots we like it from, Captain Dusty's or Richardson's for hard serve and Long Beach Dairy Maid for soft serve.The fourth stop brough great joy to me! Waiting at the ice cream shop were my brother-in-law, sister-in-law and their two adorable wee ones! There is something so terribly adorable about listening to children order their own ice cream. One so confidently, like he was born to annihilate the cone and the other so sweetly, with a shy little 1-inch voice. After enjoying my kiddie sized wildcat (butterscotch ice cream with oreos in it. Seriously. It's real.) we headed to my next destination.

Fifth Stop: West Beach in Beverly Farms
Prior to meeting The Husband, I would drive by West Beach. Sometimes I would get huffy and be like "really, Bev Farms? You need a private beach? *scoffing noises*" Then we met and his family is partially from there. Do they neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed a private beach? Meh. Is it one of the best beaches around? Hell to the yes. It's beautiful and even though I received the WORST sunburn of my life there, I'd happily go there anytime. Perks to being a private beach? My sister-in-law and I had a cup of Chard while relaxing on the veranda. Does it get any better? I don't think it does. Fun Fact: West Beach was where we originally planned to have our wedding ceremony. It also home to many family events in the summer.

 

 

Sixth Stop: Salem Willows

I arrived at the Willos to find my pal Aimee waiting. Why the Willows, you may ask. What is so special about a few arcades, delicious candied popcorn, chow mein or egg foo yung sandwiches? It was the spot of our second date and being the gentleman he is, he gave all of our tickets to a child after. Aimee and I decend upon the madness and do the smart thing: only cash in $2 each for playing. I could have wasted all of my money on the skee ball. I have a problem. We played in one arcade where an adorable little girl stole all of my tickets when I finished playing. NBD, wee one, i don't need them anyway. Seriously, what am I going to get for 20 tickets or less? We wandered over to the other arcade where I was met with my second arcade love: Pin Ball. I am no Tommy, but I love that shit. I did terribly and it cost three quarters to play (a bit pricey, me thinks). Of course I did terribly, I played Monopoly... I hate Monopoly more than any human should hate something. #YOLO

 

 

And there was more skee ball to be played in the second arcade!

We gave our tickets to the cutest little guy who was rocking out to Guitar Hero. I didn't even though they made an arcade version of it! Guitar Hero wasn't the only musical...thing in the second arcade. They had the creepiest old display that if you put in a dime, old scary monkeys "played" music.

And the one in the bottom right corner looked like he was playing with boobs.

Dirty monkey!

Seventh Stop: Salem Beer Works (in Salem... if the name didn't give it away)

For a long time, this was our spot. If we were going out to dinner, 9 times out of 10 you could find us here. We've had a lot of good food, good beer (for him), and good laughs, like that time we both ordered foot long hot dogs and died after they came out:

                                                                            

Aimee and I enjoyed some lunch while discussing the important things in life: people we don't like, work, food, and pets. :)

Eight Stop: Tuck's Point in Manchester

This is the site of our wedding ceremony.

Aimee left me in the company of Sam and Stan, the maid of honor and best man of our wedding. Sam had a cute bouquet for me that was similar to my wedding bouquet. We milled around breifly and after almost being run over by a child on a bike, decided it was time to head to the final stop.

Nineth Stop: My In-Laws' home in Manchester

Not only have they been lovely and welcoming since day one, they were kind enough to let us live there with them for a while AND it was the location of our reception. I won the in-law jackpot, y'all.

I was blindfolded for this. I walked down the yard, led by Sam and Stan, like I was drunk. There, waiting for me was a kilt-clad Husband on one knee holding a ring he gave me as wedding gift. He proposed to another year, but naturally before he got a word in he was told the blind folding would never again happen (I know how to make him feel loved.). I accepted in front of everyone and we had a lovely bar-b-que with those nearest and dearest to us.

It was a a wonderful day, filled with pure joy and love. I couldn't have asked for a better anniversary.

 

The only thing I'd do differently? Wear sunblock.

The photo doesn't do it justice. It is way worse than it looks.







Makeup! Not War!

Ok, maybe the post title is a little silly but I friggin' love makeup. I love/hate that it is called makeup... But I suppose it is kind of on point: you casn use it to make up a new image. Which, I suppose, is why I like it. I do not NEED makeup. No one actually NEEDS makeup-except maybe drag queens but that is more so they look SICKENING than necessity.

I like that foundation evens my skin tone out. I like that shimmery pressed powder makes my face shimmery. I like blush and bronzer. Eye liner? All over it. I like using black and gold liner or black and silver. Or black and teal. Or using liquid black on top to wing it out and black pencil on the bottom. and don't get me started on eye shadow!

Seriously, there has been such an increase in awesome shades of everything since I was a tween playing around with this shit. For instance, the Electric Palette by Urban Decay. It is a neo, rainbow paradise of eye shadow. Can I bring myself to pay the $50 for it? Nope. But this girl can dream! I just
want to play with it!
  

TREMBLE BEFORE ITS BEAUTY!





For the last few months, my makeup love has changed. I now covet lipstick. I spent months, literally months, searching for the right oxblood shade (Revlon Black Cherry, if your interested). I have reds and wines as well. But I am lacking any other color. Which is becoming a problem. I want pink. And orange. And black. And purple. I want it all and I am not ashamed.

I don't care about contouring. I should probably care more about priming than I do. I have lately found myself searching for hot pink, purple, and black lipstick on the daily at work. Part of me fears they will look terrible. Part of me says, "Fuck it! Dooooooo it." #YOLO